{"id":142,"date":"2009-08-28T19:37:52","date_gmt":"2009-08-28T07:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/?p=142"},"modified":"2009-08-28T19:40:01","modified_gmt":"2009-08-28T07:40:01","slug":"why-do-some-weight-train-for-life-others-give-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/bodybuilding-2\/why-do-some-weight-train-for-life-others-give-up.php","title":{"rendered":"Why do some weight train for life &#038; others give up ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"gareththomasnz\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/bodybuilding-2\/why-do-some-weight-train-for-life-others-give-up.php\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/images\/photo2.jpg\" alt=\"gareth thomas\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Currently I have been weight lifting and keeping fit for 25 years. I have never, ever used steroids and gave up alcohol and smoking 25 years ago.<\/p>\n<p>When I made the commitment to lift weights it was a permanent one.<\/p>\n<p>The gym became my place of hope and solace. My health and fitness keep me happy and positive when everything else can be going wrong sometimes. If you are well &#8211; thats what matters.<\/p>\n<p>So why do most people who undertake fitness give up after 6 months ?<\/p>\n<p>Why do millions of people who know how much better fitness makes their lives still just give up ?<\/p>\n<p>I cant say why straight out of my head &#8211; I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>Is it because they are dumb, lazy, disorganized ? Well not keeping in shape is all of those things but of course plenty of clever &#038; hard working people die an early death because they are not in shape.<\/p>\n<p>The answer must be psychological in nature, it must be related to motivation. We are talking a lifetime commitment here &#8211; a major life change.<\/p>\n<p>I believe the answer is the in initial psychological imprint this change has upon your mind. For me the change to a healthy lifestyle and body building was phenomenal.<\/p>\n<p>I was a skinny picked on drug addict and street kid. I weighed like 6 stone and was a dope smoker and drunkard truant. I was a very bad kid, the guys I hung out with were 10 yrs older than me. We are talking a convicted rapist, drug dealers, violent people. <\/p>\n<p>The terrible thing is I became as bad as them myself. I was nearly murdered as a kid and my family busted up so I really didn&#8217;t have any role models that made me feel safe or welcome except for a bunch of small town thugs.<\/p>\n<p>Those were tough times &#8211; at 6 stone I was nearly at deaths door.<\/p>\n<p>Body building turned it around for me. Just like if a person saved your life you would owe them right.<br \/>\nWell body building saved my life. I doubled my weight, kicked the drugs &#038; booze and lost the bad company.<\/p>\n<p>I studied psychology and motivation and went back to school (from which I had been expelled for drugs). So after that there was no turning back.<\/p>\n<p>I think that the reason some people train for life and others do not is quite simple. Those that never give up have a genuine appreciation for the benefits of fitness and the seriousness of those benefits.<\/p>\n<p>Those that give up do so out of ignorance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tweet Currently I have been weight lifting and keeping fit for 25 years. I have never, ever used steroids and gave up alcohol and smoking 25 years ago. When I made the commitment to lift weights it was a permanent one. The gym became my place of hope and solace. My health and fitness keep [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[324],"class_list":["post-142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bodybuilding-2","tag-fitness-philosophy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=142"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":144,"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142\/revisions\/144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.freefitnessguru.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}